The first time I was ever in Las Vegas, February 2007, didn't go so well.
It began with me in tears, somewhere in The Venetian, dialing up my husband on his cell phone. He was there on business; I'd flown in to spend the weekend with him. I believe our conversation started off with me trying not to sniffle and whimper like a total girl, but failing miserably. I was completely lost, I'd been lugging my suitcase all over the fake Venice "marketplace" and I could no more figure out where the actual hotel started than explain the game of craps to you. My husband asked if I could tell him where I was. I looked around and then said, "Across from the Oxygen Bar." He told me to stay right there and he'd be there in a heartbeat.
Later, after a cocktail (Or, um three. Maybe four.), I apologized for my emotional meltdown. Then I made an appointment for a "raspberry sherbet pedicure." I felt better.
Then, the next evening we decided to walk down The Strip and soak in some of the ambiance. Ambiance that consisted of swarthy men handing my husband baseball cards which advertised "barely legal asian blondes." Hey, hello, I wanted to holler. Do you not see me? The blondish non-asian woman holding this man's hand? We're with each other. See, we have these rings which suggest marriage?
I decided a few more cocktails would help. They did.
By the time we left, I was referring to Vegas as "Disneyland on crack." And I'm not a big fan of Disneyland. Or crack.
So, why am I willingly hopping on a plane tomorrow to join my husband in Las Vegas? Well, um, it's practically free. There's that. And I believe in second chances. Plus, we'll be at The Bellagio, so maybe I won't get lost in plasticland.
But more than that, and more than two nights away with my husband (and no kids) in a fancy hotel with room service and beds I don't have to make and bathrooms with big plushy towels (and robes!! God, I love those hotel robes.), there's the fantasy aspect of it. (Stop. Wait. Get your heads out of the gutter.)
Specifically, Frank Sinatra.
Is there anyone cooler? (Maybe Springsteen. Or Dennis Quaid but they're not Vegas-y.) Now, I know that The Sands and The Stardust have both been razed. And I know Old Blue Eyes has been dead for a decade. But there's a coolness factor that he still knocks off the charts. (Or is that just me?) And I know that The Strip isn't the same as it was in the Rat Pack glory years. But I can pretend.
A cocktail will probably help.
p.s. Humor me this week, okay? Next week, I'll be back, nose to the grindstone, pen in hand, working on my next tome. But for now, I'm looking for Frank.
(cross-posted over at Channeling Erma)
4 comments:
I can absolutely relate to "Disney World on Crack". I loathe Las Vegas, but nevertheless seem to find myself there on business at least once every four or five years. The place is symbolic to me of pretty much everything that is wrong with our culture. But -- a couple of days away with the man you love in a swanky hotel is always a good thing, even if you have to self-medicate to leave the hotel room :)
I'd undoubtedly feel lost in Las Vegas in simply trying to figure out what's real and what's not. Yet the irony is...what a place to hold business conventions! ;)
I can really feel where you're coming from. Las Vegas is a place I have no desire to visit.
But a couple of years ago my hubby and I spent a week holed up in a nice hotel with no priorities but each other. :o) That's good anywhere.
I've never been to Vegas. I'm not sure I want to go, but someday... maybe. Just maybe.
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